GIRL-FRIEND VS GIRLFRIEND

Hey guys, I’m here again with a new topic. A topic that is related to all guys in this world...the only different would be either you agree with me or not. Honestly, I’m not sure whether I’ve blog about this before or not, but I don’t give a f***, I’m just gonna blog it.

Girl-friend vs Girlfriend. Girl-friend means your friend or best friend that is a girl and girlfriend means the person that you’re seeing, going on a date, your love and you dot, dot, dot *wink* and is a girl.

So basically what I wanna write today is the different between girl-friend and girlfriend. These includes how you (guys) need to draw a line on how you treat your girl-friend and how you treat your girlfriend. Other than that, I’m also doing this so that other people will stop thinking that when a guy have a girl-friend means that they are dating (I mean, come on!). I’m probably not the best person to talk about this since I’ve never been in a relationship but I’ve made observation.

1.  Phone call/ text message:

When making a phone call or texting a message or Whatsapp or anything in between, you don’t have to text your girl-friend first if you don’t have anything to say, just let them text you first. And you don’t have to feel bad if they’re mad at you for not texting them first. That is something that I don’t understand about girls sometimes, they expect their guy friend to text them first every time, even if that guy doesn’t know what to talk about.

While for girlfriend, try to text them first, even if to just say Good Morning. It will make them happy, trust me. But DON’T TEXT THEM TOO MUCH, you’ll suffocate them. When receiving a phone call from your girlfriend, try to answer them, even if it’s 3 in the morning. Just answer them because if you don’t they’ll just be mad at you. Plus, if you do, you’ll be label the sweetest boyfriend ever..yeay!.

2.  Walking:

When walking with your girl-friend, try not to touch them so much, don’t hold their hands or put your arm on their shoulders or anything in between because A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) you’ll be giving an impression to other people that you two are a couple. So, keep your distance.

When walking with your girlfriend, you can do the opposite of what I wrote above. But not too much or you’ll be labelled as a pervert (sinner!).

3.  Presents:

I love presents!!! Well, we’re not talking about me.

So presents, when you want to give a present to your girl-friend, try not to give them flowers or a teddy bear holding a heart shaped pillow or something that says ‘I love you’ or ‘You’re special’ or ‘I miss you’ or ‘To the special one’ or shits like that, because again A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) other people will think you’re in love with them and you’re a couple. So nooh, DON’T GIVE THEM A ROMANTIC PRESENTS. Give them a presents like a photo frame (without any of those love quotes) or a notebook or...I don’t know, anything that you might give to your sister or something.

However, when you’re giving a present to your girlfriend, you can either give all those stereotypes gifts or find a present that describe them or something that they really love. Or you can make something from the bottom of your heart, instead of just buying things, unless if your girlfriend is a materialistic then you’ll need to give them like handbags or clothes and shit.

So, I guess that’s the 3 main points of the girl-friend vs girlfriend that I wanted to share. There’s more but I ain’t got time to write all of it. So until next time!

Today I wanna know whether you agree with me or not? If you don’t, let me know your thoughts. And you can also add any points that I have missed out regarding the different between girl-friend and girlfriend.

Leave your opinion on the comments below. Share this post with your friends or family to make things clear (if your friend or family thinks you’re dating your girl-friend).  And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

Zac

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FOR ADOPTION

Hey guys....surprise! This week I’ll be posting not 1 but 2 updates, since I have so many things to share. So today, I’ll be blogging about something that is related to adoption.

As some of you might know (if you follow me on Twitter) that something happened a few weeks ago. Something shocking, something I never thought would happen to me but it did.

I accidentally hit a kitten with my car. It was an accident, I swear. I didn’t saw it was under the car. So yeah, I reversed the car and I hit the kitten, but fortunately it didn’t die because the accident wasn’t bad but the kitten was kinda limping.

So I took it to the clinic later that day, right after I got off work. And the vet said that he (it’s a male) is fine, just his nerve was a bit of a problem but he will get better with a proper care.

So long story short, he is better now, much better. He’s super active, hyper now. And he also have a name, given by my sister, which is Boboy (it’s kinda funny but whatever).

Some of you might already know where this is going but for some others who don’t, I’m actually giving the kitten, Boboy for an adoption. I know it’s not a nice thing and sounded mean because I hit him and I’m a cat person but I’m giving a kitten away but let me tell you my reason. The reason I wanted to give Boboy for adoption is because I’m busy with work, I work from 9am to 6pm, 5 days a week. And I also have a side job and on weekends I normally do my writing and now blogging. I can clean him and give him food but I can’t spend so much time with him, I mean, I can but then I’ll collapse after a few days. So yes, that’s why. It’s for the best (this sentence is cliché, I know), it’s the best for him and for me. I know you must be thinking, “why didn’t he ask his sister to help him?” I can and they already are but I don’t wanna trouble them, they also have things to do. So, please understand my situation and don’t judge me.

The reason why I’m sharing this is because I still haven’t found anyone who would want to adopt Boboy. So maybe if you have friends that want a kitten, just let me know. There won’t be any charges for the adoption, I just want Boboy to have an owner who would love him, not because I want my money back.

So, that’s all for today. Boboy’s pictures are attached below.

Are you interested or your family or friends or neighbours are interested to adopt Boboy? Or maybe you have a link of website that could help me find a new owner for him. And also, share your story about your pet. Have you ever hit an animal? Or have you had a pet that died because of an accident? Or any pet story?

Let me know all about it in the comments below. Share this post to anyone who’s interested or you think might be interested. And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

Zac

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AFTER CONVOCATION

Yeay!!

Hey guys, as some of you already know, I have officially done with my convocation which was held on Wednesday (2.11.2016). I’m just gonna wrap it up for you. It went well for me, I didn’t fall off or on stage, though I did mistakenly held the scroll in a wrong way...haha...but other than that, everything was great. I had an awesome time there. I met a few of my college friends and also K and Y.

There really isn’t much to tell, nothing bazaar or out of the ordinary thing happen. Though I don’t really happy with the way I look on that day because my hair was short and I forgot to wear my big glasses, so all in all, I look older. But on brighter side, I did get the chance to wear my blazer for the first time. And again, I’m glad that it went well.

I know that I’ve wrote my “speech” on Instagram (if you follow me,you’ll know) but I’m just gonna write it here again.

I would like to take this chance to say thank you to my family, my best friends, my college friends, my lecturers and those people who have directly or indirectly supported, encouraged and guided me through those 3 years of hard work,blood and sweat..and occasionally tears..haha...Thank you to those people who have directly or indirectly lifted me up when I was feeling down and made me feel happy in the time when I was stress. I am forever grateful for all you for what you have done for me until I am being awarded for the Chief Executive Officer Award on last Wednesday. That is something that I can never repay.

Okay, I’m being emotional now. *wriggling my body*

In other news *reported style*, me family and I went out for dinner on Thursday, that was fun and super delicious. Oh,oh, and also A gave me a bouquet of lollipops! Thanks A! He knows I love candy. And my sisters gave me flowers with a small teddy bear...awwww...... J

So yeah, I think that’s all for today.

This week will be a bit different because I’ll be posting again on Sunday with a different topic because I should’ve blog about it before but I forgot (typical me), so I’ll post it on Sunday.

Okay, so this week I wanna know how was your graduation or convocation? Did it go well? Were there any awkward moments with your friends or your friend’s family? Were you happy with the way you look on that day?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this post if you or your friend experienced that same thing as I was and follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

Zac

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BEFORE CONVOCATION

Hey guys, so today I wanna talk about, well actually I have a few things that I wanna talk about but that's for some other time. Now I wanna talk about convocation which will be held on next Wednesday. A bit excited about that and also a bit nervous. The thing that scares me the most is to fall on stage or off stage, either way it's embarrassing. Every time I have to get on stage in front of a lot of people, I always worried about falling down. It's hurtful and embarrassing...and people are gonna remember it for years and maybe forever.

Okay, let's get back to the topic. Before convocation, yes, by the time this is posted on BATC, the rehearsal for the convocation will be on the next day. Again, O'm pretty excited and nervous about it but this time is not because I'm worry might fall but because I will be seeing my college friends that I haven't seen for a year and some are more than that. The thing is, I don't have any major accomplishment, okay I have a job now but a lot of my college friends have job too. So what do I have that they don't? A blog?...haha...Some of them might have it too, we'll never know...haha..But yeah, that is what I'm worried about at the moment. I talked about this with A and K. A said that I don't have to worry about that because now I have job with big salary (not really) and I have 1 manuscript that's in a queue. But the manuscript, I don't know, I still haven't got any news from them, and again about the job, my friends might have a job with a bigger salary than mine. So yeah, that's what I wanna talk about, what I feel before rehearsal and before the actual event.

So that's all for today, I hope you enjoy reading about me sharing what I feel for my convocation. Do you have and had the same feeling when you're going to your convocation or graduation? What are you or were you worry about for that day? Or what's the thing you worry about when going on a stage? How was your convocation or graduation turned out to be?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this post if you are or have a friend that will be attending a convocation or graduation. And follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,
Zac

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I HATE EVERYONE.....DO I?

Hey guys! As you all can see the title, I hate everyone...that’s what my best friend, A, said but not in judgemental way. Okay, yes, I probably sometimes kinda sorta hate people but let me tell you, I don’t hate people without a reason. A said I hate people especially on the first meet. That is because I’m protective of my friends, and, on my point of defence, I don’t hate them, it’s just that I’m not the kind of person who would be like “OMG, you are the nicest person I’ve ever meet, we should be bff,” after like 5 seconds of meeting them for the first time. I need to know more about the person before I can accept them into our group (me,A and S). Because what if that person is a psychopath? Or a drug dealer? Drug addict? Murderer? Child abuser? Con man? Alien pretending to be a human? Or a blood sucking  vampire? I would regret it my whole life if I accepted those people into our group. And A and S might say that I’m a bit picky, well maybe I am because come on, how can you be friends with people that you can’t be comfortable around, right? So, for me, if the person is going to be in our group, he or she somehow or sorta have the same thinking or characteristics as one of us. So yeah, maybe some of you agree with A, that I hate people but whatever, I’m sticking with what I believe. Anyway,just so you know, when I don’t like those new people, I don’t show it in front of them, I would just say it on their back or something, which is yes, it’s a bad thing to do but at least it’s better than showing it in front of them and making them feel bad or label you as an asshole or probably slap your face. So yes, I’m not a very friendly person as you all know, maybe because I don’t really mind being alone...I don’t know. To conclude this post, I just wanna say that I don’t hate people except those who annoy me or mean to me, but other than, I don’t.

So,the different pattern I mentioned on the post earlier today, is that from now on I will want to know your opinion about my post and the topic I write about. So today, I wanna know what do you think? Am I being unreasonable for being picky? Are you the kind of person who would accept people as your bff after the first meet? Or you will never admit them as your friend even after years of knowing each other?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this post if you have a friend who has the same thinking as me and follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

Zac

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