PERKS OF (NOT) BEING ON THE SPOTLIGHT

Hey guys! What’s up? So this week I’m gonna list down a few perks of not being on the spotlight. First of all I wanna say, it’s been raining here almost every day! I kinda like it but it makes my outdoor activities limited.

Like I have a lot....hahahahahaha...

Anyway, I know most of people would list down the perks of being ON THE SPOTLIGHT but I’m doing the opposite. I’m not sure whether you guys get the reference ‘on the spotlight’ or not. For those who do get it, congrats!

*clapping* *fireworks*

For those who don’t, let me explain to you. Being on the spotlight meaning, people know you, people say hi to you when they saw you, teachers/lecturers will give attention to you and talk to other teachers/lecturers about you behind your back (not in a bad way), people wanna be friends with you, etc.

So, since I think it’s safe for me to say that I’ve been on and off the spotlight throughout my life so far, and experienced both situations, I feel like sharing the benefits of not being the centre of attention.

So to those who are not on the spotlight, you should read this.

Let’s go!

Perks of not being on the spotlight.

1)     You don’t have to care what other people think about you.

Since they’re already not paying attention to you and probably don’t even know of your existence, you can just do whatever. You can do anything that you like or wear any clothes you want because you don’t have to give a shit about what they think.

2)      Safe from being call Teacher’s pet.

Teachers/lecturers will not call your name to answer a question or wipe the white board or mentioned your name in class or use your name for a Math questions. Therefore, no one can call you a teacher’s pet and you can just be friends with anyone you like.

3)      You can be wherever you want.

If you’re on the spotlight, people will want you to be at the same place as they are or expect you to be at a certain place because if you are at a place where they didn’t expect you to be, they will freak out and the news will spread through the entire school.

However, when you’re not on the spotlight, you can just go anywhere without people looking at you and judging you (even though they still might) but you don’t have to worry about the news spreading because it won’t.

4)      You don’t need to have 2 social media accounts.

When you’re not on the spotlight, you don’t have to worry about your friend saw you update something on your social media and talk about them with your other school mates. You can just let them follow/add you without have to worry about anything. Therefore, you don’t have to create another account just so that your school/college friends can follow/add you and you have to pretend to only update something clever or nice.

Okay, that’s all I got for this week. I know I’m missing a few more but whatever.

Until next time!

If you guys know other points that I’m missing, leave it the comment section below. And tell me whether you are on or off the spotlight? Are these perks related to you? Or that this post helps you in anyway?

Leave your opinion in the comment section below. Share this post if you have a friend or family that is not on the spotlight. And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

Zac

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PRIVATE ACCOUNT

Hey guys! It’s me! So this week I wanna write about social media and private account. First of all I wanna say this to people who private their social media accounts, WHAT THE HELL????

I’m saying this not because I’m pissed off but because it annoys me. I know that I rarely follow or add people on social media and I shouldn’t really care if people private their accounts, but what crosses my mind whenever I saw someone have their account private is that, Why? Why create a social media account but then you keep it private? I understand if it was like ages ago because you can say that you wanna “connect” with your friends only but now we have Whatsapp, WeChat, Line and other things. So you can connect with your friends there, privately, why do you need to create Facebook or Twitter or Instagram anymore?

I get it if you’re a girl, because you worried that people will take your pictures and do some voodoo shit (which is kinda ridiculous) and what not but the guys? I mean, come on, who do you think you are? Freaking Justin Bieber or something? You worried millions of people would follow you and spam you and shit? Bitch, in your dreams.

I know some of you guys who private your account might have your own reason but honestly, I can’t think of any reasonable reason for your action. Okay, maybe you would say it’s because you’re posting a naked pictures of yourself there and don’t want public to see them, but then why in the hell you post it in social media in the first place? Why not just share it to the people you wanted to share through Whatsapp and stuff?

I wish you could see my face while I’m writing this.

Like what A told me, social media is for you to connect with people and maybe find the person who have the same opinion or ideas as you do.

Throwback to my last week’s post. Ching!

But yeah, if you wanna keep it private, then don’t do it on social media. I’m sure I am not the only one who annoyed by it.

But on the other hand, do whatever you want; it’s your life, your choice. I don’t really give a shit J . Just that I might not follow you, unless you followed me first and then I feel kinda bad if I don’t return the favour, then I might request to follow you (annoying!!!!). Though I’m not so sure if I followed my friends back,

*Looking up, trying to remember*

I’m such a horrible person, I’m sorry!

Anyhow, that’s all for this week....I feel so relieved that I’ve let it out.

*Exhale loudly*

So this week I wanna know what do you feel about private accounts on social media? Do you agree with them? Or are you one of them? Maybe you wanna share your reason for making your social media private. Or any thoughts regarding this in general.

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KEEP HOLDIND ON

Hey guys, so today I wanna talk about something that I think a lot of people can relate to, which is feeling like you are the only person who thinks about certain thing that way. Okay, maybe not 100% like that, maybe you know that definitely someone out there who thinks about it the same way you do, but it’s just that you have never heard or saw or talk to that person. So at the moment you feel like you’re alone, you might be wrong or weird for thinking that way, but let me tell you, DON’T, you have the right to have your own personal opinion about things.

Just share your opinion if you want to and if other people said or think that you’re wrong or ridiculous or absurd, just screw them. It’s your opinion and it doesn't hurt anyone, so just ignore all those negativity.

And if you feel like you can’t face that kind of respond, so you can just either keep it to yourself or write on your diary or notes or maybe blogging anonymously, but never lose your opinion.

Sometimes those people shut you down because you’re right, your opinion was right and they are just afraid of being wrong. So that’s why they refused to listen or say you’re being ridiculous and shit.

So just believe in what you feel or think and hold on to it because you never know that maybe one day you’ll find someone who thinks exactly...well, maybe not exactly but more or less the same way as you do. Okay, it might not happen the next hour or the next day, maybe it might take 5 or 10 years but trust me, when you found that person, it will be surreal and you’ll be so happy and glad you hold on to your thoughts and what you believe in.

Yes, that person might probably be from thousands of miles away and you can’t see them face to face and talk but that actually much more amazing. Just think about it, someone from so far away have the same thinking as you are, its mind blowing.

And again, you will feel so great when it happen. You’ll probably cry...tears of joy...

So, I wanna wrap up today’s post by saying, don’t be afraid to have your own opinion (unless it’s a scary one, then yes, you should be afraid), you don’t have to follow what other people think or feel, be your own self.

So today I wanna be one of the people who want to know your opinion. Do have an opinion or thought that no one seems to care? Have you found the person who has the same thoughts as you are? If you did, is it someone who lives near to you or is it someone from the other side of the world?

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RANDOMLY WRITING

Hey guys, it’s me again! So this week I don’t have any specific topic that I’m gonna share because I was so freaking busy this week with work and stuff, but mostly work. Therefore I didn’t get any chance to create a topic. I am actually writing this like this morning. Okay, I should tell you that previously I didn’t write them on the same day as the day I post it, normally it would be like a few days or a day before because I have to make sure that it goes smoothly, not just jumping from one point to one point back and forth....and now I don’t know what to write.....

Okay, so yes, I was busy so I don’t have like 1 exact topic, so I’ll just randomly writing about a few stuffs. Let me tell you how busy I am, I have to go to the office in a couple of minutes (but by the time I’ll post this, I’ll post this I would already get back home) because there are 2 of my customers are gonna pick up their banners and shit.... “great”!

Other than that, I guess I should tell you that Boboy (my kitten) was sent to a shelter a few days ago but we’ll have to pick him up back because my sister’s friend is gonna adopt him after my sister nagged her to take Boboy because she felt so sad for Boboy staying at the shelter (what a wust) (I don’t know if I spell it right). So yeah, he is no longer in my life. My sisters expect me to like cry or being miserable (maybe not miserable) because I’m letting go of Boboy, but, this may sound as if I’m a total asshole, but I don’t really feel sad but that doesn’t mean I feel good about sending him away. I don’t feel sad because I know this is the best for him and for me ( I guess) because I would feel horrible if he’s still with me and I couldn’t give him my attention or my time to play or clean him and stuff.  So, it’s better this way. Okay, I know some of you don’t agree, so fine, judge me all you want...haha...

*Searching for topics to write*

Well, I guess I should just tell you that I’ve sent my full manuscript to another 3 publishers last week (I think), so, wish me luck! And I’m actually in a middle of writing a short story which is in full English language and I’m planning to write the second story in the same series as the full manuscript I keep sending to publisher. I should also tell you that the manuscript I sent to a few publishers last week is actually my second full manuscript. So the next time when I mention second full manuscript, you’ll know which one I’m writing about.

I’m pretty sure most people or writers, will keep this information as a secret until the book gets publish but I just spread the information away...haha...But I guess it’s because I know that there’s a big chance it won’t get publish, so I’m just like “Whatever”.. *hair flip*

*A few minutes later*

Oh, I have like a confession to make, about something that I just realized recently, I think I have it my whole life and my sister just told me about it the other day, is that I’m kinda fussy sometimes, about certain things. My sister said that I’m fussy when I’m eating at my office because I don’t wanna eat rice at my office or anything heavy and I try not to eat something oily. Yes, it’s kinda fussy but on my point of defence is that I really don’t feel like eating anything heavy at my office and the oily part is because I need to use the laptop and the phone, so it’ll be a mess if my hands are oily from the food.

Related to that, I also just realized I’m fussy when doing a checklist or notes. I want it to be neat and well arrange. If the number is 1), 2), 3), I need it to be like that for the wholelist, I don’t want it to be like 1), 2), and then like 3. , I will like erase it and change it to 3). And this actually sorta happened yesterday, when I asked the intern in my office to write a note on the white board (which is something I did on my own but since he’s sitting next to the white board and there isn’t much space for me to stand) and long story short, he didn’t write in the same way I do, so I was like “It’s okay, I’ll write it myself” but I was laughing when I said that and I said “I’m kinda fussy on this part”, and that was like the first time I ever say it out loud. So yeah.

I guess that’s all for today, I’ve been rambling some shits. I’ll post again next week, hopefully with a topic.

So this week I wanna what do you think of what I did regarding Boboy? Am I being horrible for giving him away? Have you ever done the same thing? Do you have something that you’re fussy about?

Leave your opinion and answers on the comments below. Share this if you have friends that similar to any of these topics or share if you want to. And follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

Zac

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GIRL-FRIEND VS GIRLFRIEND

Hey guys, I’m here again with a new topic. A topic that is related to all guys in this world...the only different would be either you agree with me or not. Honestly, I’m not sure whether I’ve blog about this before or not, but I don’t give a f***, I’m just gonna blog it.

Girl-friend vs Girlfriend. Girl-friend means your friend or best friend that is a girl and girlfriend means the person that you’re seeing, going on a date, your love and you dot, dot, dot *wink* and is a girl.

So basically what I wanna write today is the different between girl-friend and girlfriend. These includes how you (guys) need to draw a line on how you treat your girl-friend and how you treat your girlfriend. Other than that, I’m also doing this so that other people will stop thinking that when a guy have a girl-friend means that they are dating (I mean, come on!). I’m probably not the best person to talk about this since I’ve never been in a relationship but I’ve made observation.

1.  Phone call/ text message:

When making a phone call or texting a message or Whatsapp or anything in between, you don’t have to text your girl-friend first if you don’t have anything to say, just let them text you first. And you don’t have to feel bad if they’re mad at you for not texting them first. That is something that I don’t understand about girls sometimes, they expect their guy friend to text them first every time, even if that guy doesn’t know what to talk about.

While for girlfriend, try to text them first, even if to just say Good Morning. It will make them happy, trust me. But DON’T TEXT THEM TOO MUCH, you’ll suffocate them. When receiving a phone call from your girlfriend, try to answer them, even if it’s 3 in the morning. Just answer them because if you don’t they’ll just be mad at you. Plus, if you do, you’ll be label the sweetest boyfriend ever..yeay!.

2.  Walking:

When walking with your girl-friend, try not to touch them so much, don’t hold their hands or put your arm on their shoulders or anything in between because A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) you’ll be giving an impression to other people that you two are a couple. So, keep your distance.

When walking with your girlfriend, you can do the opposite of what I wrote above. But not too much or you’ll be labelled as a pervert (sinner!).

3.  Presents:

I love presents!!! Well, we’re not talking about me.

So presents, when you want to give a present to your girl-friend, try not to give them flowers or a teddy bear holding a heart shaped pillow or something that says ‘I love you’ or ‘You’re special’ or ‘I miss you’ or ‘To the special one’ or shits like that, because again A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) other people will think you’re in love with them and you’re a couple. So nooh, DON’T GIVE THEM A ROMANTIC PRESENTS. Give them a presents like a photo frame (without any of those love quotes) or a notebook or...I don’t know, anything that you might give to your sister or something.

However, when you’re giving a present to your girlfriend, you can either give all those stereotypes gifts or find a present that describe them or something that they really love. Or you can make something from the bottom of your heart, instead of just buying things, unless if your girlfriend is a materialistic then you’ll need to give them like handbags or clothes and shit.

So, I guess that’s the 3 main points of the girl-friend vs girlfriend that I wanted to share. There’s more but I ain’t got time to write all of it. So until next time!

Today I wanna know whether you agree with me or not? If you don’t, let me know your thoughts. And you can also add any points that I have missed out regarding the different between girl-friend and girlfriend.

Leave your opinion on the comments below. Share this post with your friends or family to make things clear (if your friend or family thinks you’re dating your girl-friend).  And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

Zac

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