Saturday, November 26, 2016
Hey guys, so today I wanna talk about something that I think a lot of people can relate to, which is feeling like you are the only person who thinks about certain thing that way. Okay, maybe not 100% like that, maybe you know that definitely someone out there who thinks about it the same way you do, but it’s just that you have never heard or saw or talk to that person. So at the moment you feel like you’re alone, you might be wrong or weird for thinking that way, but let me tell you, DON’T, you have the right to have your own personal opinion about things.
Just share your opinion if you want to and if other people said or think that you’re wrong or ridiculous or absurd, just screw them. It’s your opinion and it doesn't hurt anyone, so just ignore all those negativity.
And if you feel like you can’t face that kind of respond, so you can just either keep it to yourself or write on your diary or notes or maybe blogging anonymously, but never lose your opinion.
Sometimes those people shut you down because you’re right, your opinion was right and they are just afraid of being wrong. So that’s why they refused to listen or say you’re being ridiculous and shit.
So just believe in what you feel or think and hold on to it because you never know that maybe one day you’ll find someone who thinks exactly...well, maybe not exactly but more or less the same way as you do. Okay, it might not happen the next hour or the next day, maybe it might take 5 or 10 years but trust me, when you found that person, it will be surreal and you’ll be so happy and glad you hold on to your thoughts and what you believe in.
Yes, that person might probably be from thousands of miles away and you can’t see them face to face and talk but that actually much more amazing. Just think about it, someone from so far away have the same thinking as you are, its mind blowing.
And again, you will feel so great when it happen. You’ll probably cry...tears of joy...
So, I wanna wrap up today’s post by saying, don’t be afraid to have your own opinion (unless it’s a scary one, then yes, you should be afraid), you don’t have to follow what other people think or feel, be your own self.
So today I wanna be one of the people who want to know your opinion. Do have an opinion or thought that no one seems to care? Have you found the person who has the same thoughts as you are? If you did, is it someone who lives near to you or is it someone from the other side of the world?
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Saturday, November 19, 2016
Hey guys, it’s me again! So this week I don’t have any specific topic that I’m gonna share because I was so freaking busy this week with work and stuff, but mostly work. Therefore I didn’t get any chance to create a topic. I am actually writing this like this morning. Okay, I should tell you that previously I didn’t write them on the same day as the day I post it, normally it would be like a few days or a day before because I have to make sure that it goes smoothly, not just jumping from one point to one point back and forth....and now I don’t know what to write.....
Okay, so yes, I was busy so I don’t have like 1 exact topic, so I’ll just randomly writing about a few stuffs. Let me tell you how busy I am, I have to go to the office in a couple of minutes (but by the time I’ll post this, I’ll post this I would already get back home) because there are 2 of my customers are gonna pick up their banners and shit.... “great”!
Other than that, I guess I should tell you that Boboy (my kitten) was sent to a shelter a few days ago but we’ll have to pick him up back because my sister’s friend is gonna adopt him after my sister nagged her to take Boboy because she felt so sad for Boboy staying at the shelter (what a wust) (I don’t know if I spell it right). So yeah, he is no longer in my life. My sisters expect me to like cry or being miserable (maybe not miserable) because I’m letting go of Boboy, but, this may sound as if I’m a total asshole, but I don’t really feel sad but that doesn’t mean I feel good about sending him away. I don’t feel sad because I know this is the best for him and for me ( I guess) because I would feel horrible if he’s still with me and I couldn’t give him my attention or my time to play or clean him and stuff. So, it’s better this way. Okay, I know some of you don’t agree, so fine, judge me all you want...haha...
*Searching for topics to write*
Well, I guess I should just tell you that I’ve sent my full manuscript to another 3 publishers last week (I think), so, wish me luck! And I’m actually in a middle of writing a short story which is in full English language and I’m planning to write the second story in the same series as the full manuscript I keep sending to publisher. I should also tell you that the manuscript I sent to a few publishers last week is actually my second full manuscript. So the next time when I mention second full manuscript, you’ll know which one I’m writing about.
I’m pretty sure most people or writers, will keep this information as a secret until the book gets publish but I just spread the information away...haha...But I guess it’s because I know that there’s a big chance it won’t get publish, so I’m just like “Whatever”.. *hair flip*
*A few minutes later*
Oh, I have like a confession to make, about something that I just realized recently, I think I have it my whole life and my sister just told me about it the other day, is that I’m kinda fussy sometimes, about certain things. My sister said that I’m fussy when I’m eating at my office because I don’t wanna eat rice at my office or anything heavy and I try not to eat something oily. Yes, it’s kinda fussy but on my point of defence is that I really don’t feel like eating anything heavy at my office and the oily part is because I need to use the laptop and the phone, so it’ll be a mess if my hands are oily from the food.
Related to that, I also just realized I’m fussy when doing a checklist or notes. I want it to be neat and well arrange. If the number is 1), 2), 3), I need it to be like that for the wholelist, I don’t want it to be like 1), 2), and then like 3. , I will like erase it and change it to 3). And this actually sorta happened yesterday, when I asked the intern in my office to write a note on the white board (which is something I did on my own but since he’s sitting next to the white board and there isn’t much space for me to stand) and long story short, he didn’t write in the same way I do, so I was like “It’s okay, I’ll write it myself” but I was laughing when I said that and I said “I’m kinda fussy on this part”, and that was like the first time I ever say it out loud. So yeah.
I guess that’s all for today, I’ve been rambling some shits. I’ll post again next week, hopefully with a topic.
So this week I wanna what do you think of what I did regarding Boboy? Am I being horrible for giving him away? Have you ever done the same thing? Do you have something that you’re fussy about?
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Saturday, November 12, 2016
Hey guys, I’m here again with a new topic. A topic that is related to all guys in this world...the only different would be either you agree with me or not. Honestly, I’m not sure whether I’ve blog about this before or not, but I don’t give a f***, I’m just gonna blog it.
Girl-friend vs Girlfriend. Girl-friend means your friend or best friend that is a girl and girlfriend means the person that you’re seeing, going on a date, your love and you dot, dot, dot *wink* and is a girl.
So basically what I wanna write today is the different between girl-friend and girlfriend. These includes how you (guys) need to draw a line on how you treat your girl-friend and how you treat your girlfriend. Other than that, I’m also doing this so that other people will stop thinking that when a guy have a girl-friend means that they are dating (I mean, come on!). I’m probably not the best person to talk about this since I’ve never been in a relationship but I’ve made observation.
1. Phone call/ text message:
When making a phone call or texting a message or Whatsapp or anything in between, you don’t have to text your girl-friend first if you don’t have anything to say, just let them text you first. And you don’t have to feel bad if they’re mad at you for not texting them first. That is something that I don’t understand about girls sometimes, they expect their guy friend to text them first every time, even if that guy doesn’t know what to talk about.
While for girlfriend, try to text them first, even if to just say Good Morning. It will make them happy, trust me. But DON’T TEXT THEM TOO MUCH, you’ll suffocate them. When receiving a phone call from your girlfriend, try to answer them, even if it’s 3 in the morning. Just answer them because if you don’t they’ll just be mad at you. Plus, if you do, you’ll be label the sweetest boyfriend ever..yeay!.
When walking with your girl-friend, try not to touch them so much, don’t hold their hands or put your arm on their shoulders or anything in between because A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) you’ll be giving an impression to other people that you two are a couple. So, keep your distance.
When walking with your girlfriend, you can do the opposite of what I wrote above. But not too much or you’ll be labelled as a pervert (sinner!).
I love presents!!! Well, we’re not talking about me.
So presents, when you want to give a present to your girl-friend, try not to give them flowers or a teddy bear holding a heart shaped pillow or something that says ‘I love you’ or ‘You’re special’ or ‘I miss you’ or ‘To the special one’ or shits like that, because again A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) other people will think you’re in love with them and you’re a couple. So nooh, DON’T GIVE THEM A ROMANTIC PRESENTS. Give them a presents like a photo frame (without any of those love quotes) or a notebook or...I don’t know, anything that you might give to your sister or something.
However, when you’re giving a present to your girlfriend, you can either give all those stereotypes gifts or find a present that describe them or something that they really love. Or you can make something from the bottom of your heart, instead of just buying things, unless if your girlfriend is a materialistic then you’ll need to give them like handbags or clothes and shit.
So, I guess that’s the 3 main points of the girl-friend vs girlfriend that I wanted to share. There’s more but I ain’t got time to write all of it. So until next time!
Today I wanna know whether you agree with me or not? If you don’t, let me know your thoughts. And you can also add any points that I have missed out regarding the different between girl-friend and girlfriend.
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Sunday, November 6, 2016
Hey guys....surprise! This week I’ll be posting not 1 but 2 updates, since I have so many things to share. So today, I’ll be blogging about something that is related to adoption.
As some of you might know (if you follow me on Twitter) that something happened a few weeks ago. Something shocking, something I never thought would happen to me but it did.
I accidentally hit a kitten with my car. It was an accident, I swear. I didn’t saw it was under the car. So yeah, I reversed the car and I hit the kitten, but fortunately it didn’t die because the accident wasn’t bad but the kitten was kinda limping.
So I took it to the clinic later that day, right after I got off work. And the vet said that he (it’s a male) is fine, just his nerve was a bit of a problem but he will get better with a proper care.
So long story short, he is better now, much better. He’s super active, hyper now. And he also have a name, given by my sister, which is Boboy (it’s kinda funny but whatever).
Some of you might already know where this is going but for some others who don’t, I’m actually giving the kitten, Boboy for an adoption. I know it’s not a nice thing and sounded mean because I hit him and I’m a cat person but I’m giving a kitten away but let me tell you my reason. The reason I wanted to give Boboy for adoption is because I’m busy with work, I work from 9am to 6pm, 5 days a week. And I also have a side job and on weekends I normally do my writing and now blogging. I can clean him and give him food but I can’t spend so much time with him, I mean, I can but then I’ll collapse after a few days. So yes, that’s why. It’s for the best (this sentence is cliché, I know), it’s the best for him and for me. I know you must be thinking, “why didn’t he ask his sister to help him?” I can and they already are but I don’t wanna trouble them, they also have things to do. So, please understand my situation and don’t judge me.
The reason why I’m sharing this is because I still haven’t found anyone who would want to adopt Boboy. So maybe if you have friends that want a kitten, just let me know. There won’t be any charges for the adoption, I just want Boboy to have an owner who would love him, not because I want my money back.
So, that’s all for today. Boboy’s pictures are attached below.
Are you interested or your family or friends or neighbours are interested to adopt Boboy? Or maybe you have a link of website that could help me find a new owner for him. And also, share your story about your pet. Have you ever hit an animal? Or have you had a pet that died because of an accident? Or any pet story?
Let me know all about it in the comments below. Share this post to anyone who’s interested or you think might be interested. And follow BATC for more post.
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Saturday, November 5, 2016
Hey guys, as some of you already know, I have officially done with my convocation which was held on Wednesday (2.11.2016). I’m just gonna wrap it up for you. It went well for me, I didn’t fall off or on stage, though I did mistakenly held the scroll in a wrong way...haha...but other than that, everything was great. I had an awesome time there. I met a few of my college friends and also K and Y.
There really isn’t much to tell, nothing bazaar or out of the ordinary thing happen. Though I don’t really happy with the way I look on that day because my hair was short and I forgot to wear my big glasses, so all in all, I look older. But on brighter side, I did get the chance to wear my blazer for the first time. And again, I’m glad that it went well.
I know that I’ve wrote my “speech” on Instagram (if you follow me,you’ll know) but I’m just gonna write it here again.
I would like to take this chance to say thank you to my family, my best friends, my college friends, my lecturers and those people who have directly or indirectly supported, encouraged and guided me through those 3 years of hard work,blood and sweat..and occasionally tears..haha...Thank you to those people who have directly or indirectly lifted me up when I was feeling down and made me feel happy in the time when I was stress. I am forever grateful for all you for what you have done for me until I am being awarded for the Chief Executive Officer Award on last Wednesday. That is something that I can never repay.
Okay, I’m being emotional now. *wriggling my body*
In other news *reported style*, me family and I went out for dinner on Thursday, that was fun and super delicious. Oh,oh, and also A gave me a bouquet of lollipops! Thanks A! He knows I love candy. And my sisters gave me flowers with a small teddy bear...awwww...... J
So yeah, I think that’s all for today.
This week will be a bit different because I’ll be posting again on Sunday with a different topic because I should’ve blog about it before but I forgot (typical me), so I’ll post it on Sunday.
Okay, so this week I wanna know how was your graduation or convocation? Did it go well? Were there any awkward moments with your friends or your friend’s family? Were you happy with the way you look on that day?
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