How are you guys?
Good I hope.
I was planning to post about something else this week but then I decided to change it and write something a little bit personal with you all. In hope that if someone somewhere out there have the same thinking, wouldn't feel alone. That it's normal to think that way.
So lately I have this thought lingering in my mind for a couple of days....well, it's actually been in my mind for a long time, but recently it has resurfaced and I thought I'll share it here.
Do you ever wonder whether you'll be remembered or not?
I'm not talking about being remembered by the whole world but by the people around you or the people you know or know you.
This thought has been in and out of my head tons of times. There are certain times where I don't care whether people will remember me or not but there's also times where I hope they do. But will they? When I don't even have anything to be remember by.
I have experienced when a certain things ended, people started to forget about you. But honestly, it doesn't affect me as much as you might think. I mean, it kinda sucks but I didn't stress about it. I don't know why.
I think it could be because those people are not the people that I hope for. So it matters the most when you are being forgotten by the people you want to be remembered.
I believe we all want that. To be remembered by the people that we will never forget. But the truth is, we can't control that. It's up to that indivual whether he/she wants to remember you or not.
Though it's okay to think about this, let's not overthink it and make yourself stress or depress because of it. I mean, yeah, it's sad to know the possibilities of being forgotten by the people you least expected to do so, but it's something you can't control. It's their choice. And if they did forget about you, it's not your fault.
So as if right now, we just have to push that thoughts away and focus on the things that makes us happy.
I do hope that certain people will remember me if I decided to end something, but if they don't, it's okay because I will remember them and all the good things. Because we have to understand that for a certain people, if we're in layers, we might not be the top layer or the first layer they see. So as long as we accept that, then we will be fine if we found out they forget about us.
Just like lyrics from Sarah Mclachlan's song - I Will Remember You.
"I will remember you, will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by,
Weep not for the memories."
So that's all I got for you guys. I hope this post in anyway help you out if you have the same thinking.
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