Saturday, December 31, 2016


Hey guys! So by the time I’m posting this, it will be New Year’s Eve. I am excited for the holiday but right now I’m not too excited about leaving 2016, though it might change on the day I’m posting this, because I don’t have any big accomplishment this year. I’m not saying that this year is a bad year for me because it’s not, though yes, there were ups and downs throughout this whole year but overall 2016 is a good year. My hope of meeting new people that inspire and makes me happy did come true and I am truly grateful for that. However, I still haven’t achieved any big thing this year, and that’s why I feel like I need to be in 2016 until I have a big achievement.

But that is impossible...

So, this week I will be sharing with you guys the topic of new year’s resolutions (obviously).

How mainstream of me...

So yeah, everyone probably busy listing all their resolutions since the New Year is approaching. The question is, why? I know that it’s fun and very exciting because it’s something that almost all people do, and for some, probably it has been their tradition for years, but why now?

I’m not saying that I’ve never done it before because I have but since a few years ago, I started to not really care about making a new year’s resolution on new year because I feel like resolution doesn’t have to be created on the last week of the year or on the new year’s eve, you can create your resolution anytime between that 365 or 366 days.

I get it that it’s new year so you want to do new stuff or achieve new things but what I don’t understand is that some people get stressed out to come up with New Year’s resolution.

*playing 21 Pilot’s song Stressed Out*

I mean, if you can’t come up with resolution on the New Year’s Eve, just create it later, when you already got it. Take a chill pill.

And now let’s talk about accomplishing your New Year’s resolution.

This is also something that I think you shouldn’t get too stressed out to do. I mean, you don’t have to go crazy and depress and shit to accomplish them, because it’s not good and you might die....literally....

For those who have set their resolutions and didn’t do anything about it because they were lazy or didn’t give a f*** about it but suddenly went mental to achieve it in the last 24 hours of that year, then you should get stress, you lazy piece of shit.

But for those who are unable to make it because they were busy with other more important things, then its okay, you can just bring that resolution to the next year, don’t get stress about it. Take a chill pill or anti-depression pill or something to calm you down.

So, the moral of this random post is,
1)      It’s not a compulsory to create your new year’s resolution on new year’s eve or the last week of the year.
2)      Yes, you should try your best to accomplish your resolution but if you’re unable to do it, then its okay, try achieving it the next year.

Just have fun on the new year’s eve and enjoy your holiday. Get high on life!

So that’s all for this week. Hope you’ll have a great new year and weekend.

This week I wanna know what’s your plan for the new year celebration? Share your resolution (if you have any).  And comment your thoughts about new year’s resolution.

Leave your opinion on the comment section below. Share this post if your friends are being crazy about creating or achieving their resolutions. And follow BATC for more post.

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Saturday, December 24, 2016


Hey guys! It’s me again with another topic/tips. I could say that I’ve pretty much went to a lot of weddings since I was a kid. So, as I grow up I realized that what you wear to a wedding is kinda an important thing to consider.

I’m not saying this to emphasize on the fashion and trend, but also safety and hygiene....I think...Weddings can be a messy place, especially if it’s outdoor and/or there’s kids.

So, this week I’m going to share some tips on what to wear on attending a wedding (hey, it rhymes!).

Tip #1 : If the wedding is an outdoor wedding, be it at the park, or garden,  or lake or any outdoor places, make sure you wear something simple because you never know what’s the weather will be. It could be super hot or many super cold or raining. Which bring us to.....

Tips #2 : Always bring a spare clothes, this also includes underwear, because you never know. But seriously, prepare a spare shirt or cardigan or jacket. The cardigan and jacket is for if the weather is cold, so you can just put them on. Plus, since there are too many people there, you never know if someone might wear the exact same shirt as you are. So, if you have a spare shirt, you can just change.

Tips #3 : ATTENTION LADIES! Make sure when you attend a wedding, just wear something beautiful but not too outstanding because you don’t wanna have people’s attention to you and not the bride. Trust me, you don’t wanna have that because the bride might turns into a bridezilla and she will hate you forever.

Tips #4 : This goes for both male and female. Try not to wear anything white when attending a wedding because you will regret it for the rest of your life. As I mentioned, wedding can be a messy place whether an outdoor or indoor, it will still be a messy place. So if you’re wearing anything white, you’ll feel like you’re on a landmine, booby traps are everywhere.

 Tips #5 : This is not really a what-to-wear tips but it involve your clothes. Avoid being around kids, especially when they have food in their hands. It’s okay if you’re not nice to kids on the wedding day because what’s the point of being nice and then you’ll hate them after they showed you their “gratitude” by smearing chocolates on your shirt or pants? So, just AVOID KIDS at any cause.

So, that’s all the tips I got for you this week.

And this week I wanna know, is there any other tips I missed? Have you experienced any of those situations?

Leave your opinion on the comments below. Share this post if you think it’s helpful or your friends or family need some wedding related tips. And follow BATC for more posts.


Love Always,


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Saturday, December 10, 2016


Hey guys! What’s up? So this week I’m gonna list down a few perks of not being on the spotlight. First of all I wanna say, it’s been raining here almost every day! I kinda like it but it makes my outdoor activities limited.

Like I have a lot....hahahahahaha...

Anyway, I know most of people would list down the perks of being ON THE SPOTLIGHT but I’m doing the opposite. I’m not sure whether you guys get the reference ‘on the spotlight’ or not. For those who do get it, congrats!

*clapping* *fireworks*

For those who don’t, let me explain to you. Being on the spotlight meaning, people know you, people say hi to you when they saw you, teachers/lecturers will give attention to you and talk to other teachers/lecturers about you behind your back (not in a bad way), people wanna be friends with you, etc.

So, since I think it’s safe for me to say that I’ve been on and off the spotlight throughout my life so far, and experienced both situations, I feel like sharing the benefits of not being the centre of attention.

So to those who are not on the spotlight, you should read this.

Let’s go!

Perks of not being on the spotlight.
1)     You don’t have to care what other people think about you.
Since they’re already not paying attention to you and probably don’t even know of your existence, you can just do whatever. You can do anything that you like or wear any clothes you want because you don’t have to give a shit about what they think.

2)      Safe from being call Teacher’s pet.
Teachers/lecturers will not call your name to answer a question or wipe the white board or mentioned your name in class or use your name for a Math questions. Therefore, no one can call you a teacher’s pet and you can just be friends with anyone you like.

3)      You can be wherever you want.
If you’re on the spotlight, people will want you to be at the same place as they are or expect you to be at a certain place because if you are at a place where they didn’t expect you to be, they will freak out and the news will spread through the entire school.
However, when you’re not on the spotlight, you can just go anywhere without people looking at you and judging you (even though they still might) but you don’t have to worry about the news spreading because it won’t.

4)      You don’t need to have 2 social media accounts.
When you’re not on the spotlight, you don’t have to worry about your friend saw you update something on your social media and talk about them with your other school mates. You can just let them follow/add you without have to worry about anything. Therefore, you don’t have to create another account just so that your school/college friends can follow/add you and you have to pretend to only update something clever or nice.

Okay, that’s all I got for this week. I know I’m missing a few more but whatever.

Until next time!

If you guys know other points that I’m missing, leave it the comment section below. And tell me whether you are on or off the spotlight? Are these perks related to you? Or that this post helps you in anyway?

Leave your opinion in the comment section below. Share this post if you have a friend or family that is not on the spotlight. And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

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Saturday, December 3, 2016


Hey guys! It’s me! So this week I wanna write about social media and private account. First of all I wanna say this to people who private their social media accounts, WHAT THE HELL????

I’m saying this not because I’m pissed off but because it annoys me. I know that I rarely follow or add people on social media and I shouldn’t really care if people private their accounts, but what crosses my mind whenever I saw someone have their account private is that, Why? Why create a social media account but then you keep it private? I understand if it was like ages ago because you can say that you wanna “connect” with your friends only but now we have Whatsapp, WeChat, Line and other things. So you can connect with your friends there, privately, why do you need to create Facebook or Twitter or Instagram anymore?

I get it if you’re a girl, because you worried that people will take your pictures and do some voodoo shit (which is kinda ridiculous) and what not but the guys? I mean, come on, who do you think you are? Freaking Justin Bieber or something? You worried millions of people would follow you and spam you and shit? Bitch, in your dreams.

I know some of you guys who private your account might have your own reason but honestly, I can’t think of any reasonable reason for your action. Okay, maybe you would say it’s because you’re posting a naked pictures of yourself there and don’t want public to see them, but then why in the hell you post it in social media in the first place? Why not just share it to the people you wanted to share through Whatsapp and stuff?

I wish you could see my face while I’m writing this.

Like what A told me, social media is for you to connect with people and maybe find the person who have the same opinion or ideas as you do.

Throwback to my last week’s post. Ching!

But yeah, if you wanna keep it private, then don’t do it on social media. I’m sure I am not the only one who annoyed by it.

But on the other hand, do whatever you want; it’s your life, your choice. I don’t really give a shit J . Just that I might not follow you, unless you followed me first and then I feel kinda bad if I don’t return the favour, then I might request to follow you (annoying!!!!). Though I’m not so sure if I followed my friends back,

*Looking up, trying to remember*

I’m such a horrible person, I’m sorry!

Anyhow, that’s all for this week....I feel so relieved that I’ve let it out.

*Exhale loudly*

So this week I wanna know what do you feel about private accounts on social media? Do you agree with them? Or are you one of them? Maybe you wanna share your reason for making your social media private. Or any thoughts regarding this in general.

Leave your opinion on the comments below. Share this post if you have friends or acquaintances that private their accounts or maybe they have talked to you about this. And follow BATC for more posts.

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Saturday, November 26, 2016


Hey guys, so today I wanna talk about something that I think a lot of people can relate to, which is feeling like you are the only person who thinks about certain thing that way. Okay, maybe not 100% like that, maybe you know that definitely someone out there who thinks about it the same way you do, but it’s just that you have never heard or saw or talk to that person. So at the moment you feel like you’re alone, you might be wrong or weird for thinking that way, but let me tell you, DON’T, you have the right to have your own personal opinion about things.

Just share your opinion if you want to and if other people said or think that you’re wrong or ridiculous or absurd, just screw them. It’s your opinion and it doesn't hurt anyone, so just ignore all those negativity.

And if you feel like you can’t face that kind of respond, so you can just either keep it to yourself or write on your diary or notes or maybe blogging anonymously, but never lose your opinion.

Sometimes those people shut you down because you’re right, your opinion was right and they are just afraid of being wrong. So that’s why they refused to listen or say you’re being ridiculous and shit.

So just believe in what you feel or think and hold on to it because you never know that maybe one day you’ll find someone who thinks exactly...well, maybe not exactly but more or less the same way as you do. Okay, it might not happen the next hour or the next day, maybe it might take 5 or 10 years but trust me, when you found that person, it will be surreal and you’ll be so happy and glad you hold on to your thoughts and what you believe in.

Yes, that person might probably be from thousands of miles away and you can’t see them face to face and talk but that actually much more amazing. Just think about it, someone from so far away have the same thinking as you are, its mind blowing.

And again, you will feel so great when it happen. You’ll probably cry...tears of joy...

So, I wanna wrap up today’s post by saying, don’t be afraid to have your own opinion (unless it’s a scary one, then yes, you should be afraid), you don’t have to follow what other people think or feel, be your own self.

So today I wanna be one of the people who want to know your opinion. Do have an opinion or thought that no one seems to care? Have you found the person who has the same thoughts as you are? If you did, is it someone who lives near to you or is it someone from the other side of the world?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this to make your friends or family or yourself feels better. And follow BATC for more posts.

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Saturday, November 19, 2016


Hey guys, it’s me again! So this week I don’t have any specific topic that I’m gonna share because I was so freaking busy this week with work and stuff, but mostly work. Therefore I didn’t get any chance to create a topic. I am actually writing this like this morning. Okay, I should tell you that previously I didn’t write them on the same day as the day I post it, normally it would be like a few days or a day before because I have to make sure that it goes smoothly, not just jumping from one point to one point back and forth....and now I don’t know what to write.....

Okay, so yes, I was busy so I don’t have like 1 exact topic, so I’ll just randomly writing about a few stuffs. Let me tell you how busy I am, I have to go to the office in a couple of minutes (but by the time I’ll post this, I’ll post this I would already get back home) because there are 2 of my customers are gonna pick up their banners and shit.... “great”!

Other than that, I guess I should tell you that Boboy (my kitten) was sent to a shelter a few days ago but we’ll have to pick him up back because my sister’s friend is gonna adopt him after my sister nagged her to take Boboy because she felt so sad for Boboy staying at the shelter (what a wust) (I don’t know if I spell it right). So yeah, he is no longer in my life. My sisters expect me to like cry or being miserable (maybe not miserable) because I’m letting go of Boboy, but, this may sound as if I’m a total asshole, but I don’t really feel sad but that doesn’t mean I feel good about sending him away. I don’t feel sad because I know this is the best for him and for me ( I guess) because I would feel horrible if he’s still with me and I couldn’t give him my attention or my time to play or clean him and stuff.  So, it’s better this way. Okay, I know some of you don’t agree, so fine, judge me all you want...haha...

*Searching for topics to write*

Well, I guess I should just tell you that I’ve sent my full manuscript to another 3 publishers last week (I think), so, wish me luck! And I’m actually in a middle of writing a short story which is in full English language and I’m planning to write the second story in the same series as the full manuscript I keep sending to publisher. I should also tell you that the manuscript I sent to a few publishers last week is actually my second full manuscript. So the next time when I mention second full manuscript, you’ll know which one I’m writing about.

I’m pretty sure most people or writers, will keep this information as a secret until the book gets publish but I just spread the information away...haha...But I guess it’s because I know that there’s a big chance it won’t get publish, so I’m just like “Whatever”.. *hair flip*

*A few minutes later*

Oh, I have like a confession to make, about something that I just realized recently, I think I have it my whole life and my sister just told me about it the other day, is that I’m kinda fussy sometimes, about certain things. My sister said that I’m fussy when I’m eating at my office because I don’t wanna eat rice at my office or anything heavy and I try not to eat something oily. Yes, it’s kinda fussy but on my point of defence is that I really don’t feel like eating anything heavy at my office and the oily part is because I need to use the laptop and the phone, so it’ll be a mess if my hands are oily from the food.

Related to that, I also just realized I’m fussy when doing a checklist or notes. I want it to be neat and well arrange. If the number is 1), 2), 3), I need it to be like that for the wholelist, I don’t want it to be like 1), 2), and then like 3. , I will like erase it and change it to 3). And this actually sorta happened yesterday, when I asked the intern in my office to write a note on the white board (which is something I did on my own but since he’s sitting next to the white board and there isn’t much space for me to stand) and long story short, he didn’t write in the same way I do, so I was like “It’s okay, I’ll write it myself” but I was laughing when I said that and I said “I’m kinda fussy on this part”, and that was like the first time I ever say it out loud. So yeah.

I guess that’s all for today, I’ve been rambling some shits. I’ll post again next week, hopefully with a topic.

So this week I wanna what do you think of what I did regarding Boboy? Am I being horrible for giving him away? Have you ever done the same thing? Do you have something that you’re fussy about?

Leave your opinion and answers on the comments below. Share this if you have friends that similar to any of these topics or share if you want to. And follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

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Saturday, November 12, 2016


Hey guys, I’m here again with a new topic. A topic that is related to all guys in this world...the only different would be either you agree with me or not. Honestly, I’m not sure whether I’ve blog about this before or not, but I don’t give a f***, I’m just gonna blog it.

Girl-friend vs Girlfriend. Girl-friend means your friend or best friend that is a girl and girlfriend means the person that you’re seeing, going on a date, your love and you dot, dot, dot *wink* and is a girl.

So basically what I wanna write today is the different between girl-friend and girlfriend. These includes how you (guys) need to draw a line on how you treat your girl-friend and how you treat your girlfriend. Other than that, I’m also doing this so that other people will stop thinking that when a guy have a girl-friend means that they are dating (I mean, come on!). I’m probably not the best person to talk about this since I’ve never been in a relationship but I’ve made observation.

1.  Phone call/ text message:
When making a phone call or texting a message or Whatsapp or anything in between, you don’t have to text your girl-friend first if you don’t have anything to say, just let them text you first. And you don’t have to feel bad if they’re mad at you for not texting them first. That is something that I don’t understand about girls sometimes, they expect their guy friend to text them first every time, even if that guy doesn’t know what to talk about.

While for girlfriend, try to text them first, even if to just say Good Morning. It will make them happy, trust me. But DON’T TEXT THEM TOO MUCH, you’ll suffocate them. When receiving a phone call from your girlfriend, try to answer them, even if it’s 3 in the morning. Just answer them because if you don’t they’ll just be mad at you. Plus, if you do, you’ll be label the sweetest boyfriend ever..yeay!.

2.  Walking:
When walking with your girl-friend, try not to touch them so much, don’t hold their hands or put your arm on their shoulders or anything in between because A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) you’ll be giving an impression to other people that you two are a couple. So, keep your distance.

When walking with your girlfriend, you can do the opposite of what I wrote above. But not too much or you’ll be labelled as a pervert (sinner!).

3.  Presents:
I love presents!!! Well, we’re not talking about me.
So presents, when you want to give a present to your girl-friend, try not to give them flowers or a teddy bear holding a heart shaped pillow or something that says ‘I love you’ or ‘You’re special’ or ‘I miss you’ or ‘To the special one’ or shits like that, because again A) you will make your girl-friend thinks you like her more than a friend, B) other people will think you’re in love with them and you’re a couple. So nooh, DON’T GIVE THEM A ROMANTIC PRESENTS. Give them a presents like a photo frame (without any of those love quotes) or a notebook or...I don’t know, anything that you might give to your sister or something.

However, when you’re giving a present to your girlfriend, you can either give all those stereotypes gifts or find a present that describe them or something that they really love. Or you can make something from the bottom of your heart, instead of just buying things, unless if your girlfriend is a materialistic then you’ll need to give them like handbags or clothes and shit.

So, I guess that’s the 3 main points of the girl-friend vs girlfriend that I wanted to share. There’s more but I ain’t got time to write all of it. So until next time!

Today I wanna know whether you agree with me or not? If you don’t, let me know your thoughts. And you can also add any points that I have missed out regarding the different between girl-friend and girlfriend.

Leave your opinion on the comments below. Share this post with your friends or family to make things clear (if your friend or family thinks you’re dating your girl-friend).  And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

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Sunday, November 6, 2016


Hey guys....surprise! This week I’ll be posting not 1 but 2 updates, since I have so many things to share. So today, I’ll be blogging about something that is related to adoption.

As some of you might know (if you follow me on Twitter) that something happened a few weeks ago. Something shocking, something I never thought would happen to me but it did.

I accidentally hit a kitten with my car. It was an accident, I swear. I didn’t saw it was under the car. So yeah, I reversed the car and I hit the kitten, but fortunately it didn’t die because the accident wasn’t bad but the kitten was kinda limping.

So I took it to the clinic later that day, right after I got off work. And the vet said that he (it’s a male) is fine, just his nerve was a bit of a problem but he will get better with a proper care.
So long story short, he is better now, much better. He’s super active, hyper now. And he also have a name, given by my sister, which is Boboy (it’s kinda funny but whatever).

Some of you might already know where this is going but for some others who don’t, I’m actually giving the kitten, Boboy for an adoption. I know it’s not a nice thing and sounded mean because I hit him and I’m a cat person but I’m giving a kitten away but let me tell you my reason. The reason I wanted to give Boboy for adoption is because I’m busy with work, I work from 9am to 6pm, 5 days a week. And I also have a side job and on weekends I normally do my writing and now blogging. I can clean him and give him food but I can’t spend so much time with him, I mean, I can but then I’ll collapse after a few days. So yes, that’s why. It’s for the best (this sentence is cliché, I know), it’s the best for him and for me. I know you must be thinking, “why didn’t he ask his sister to help him?” I can and they already are but I don’t wanna trouble them, they also have things to do. So, please understand my situation and don’t judge me.

The reason why I’m sharing this is because I still haven’t found anyone who would want to adopt Boboy. So maybe if you have friends that want a kitten, just let me know. There won’t be any charges for the adoption, I just want Boboy to have an owner who would love him, not because I want my money back.

So, that’s all for today. Boboy’s pictures are attached below.

Are you interested or your family or friends or neighbours are interested to adopt Boboy? Or maybe you have a link of website that could help me find a new owner for him. And also, share your story about your pet. Have you ever hit an animal? Or have you had a pet that died because of an accident? Or any pet story?

Let me know all about it in the comments below. Share this post to anyone who’s interested or you think might be interested. And follow BATC for more post.

Love Always,

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Saturday, November 5, 2016



Hey guys, as some of you already know, I have officially done with my convocation which was held on Wednesday (2.11.2016). I’m just gonna wrap it up for you. It went well for me, I didn’t fall off or on stage, though I did mistakenly held the scroll in a wrong way...haha...but other than that, everything was great. I had an awesome time there. I met a few of my college friends and also K and Y.

There really isn’t much to tell, nothing bazaar or out of the ordinary thing happen. Though I don’t really happy with the way I look on that day because my hair was short and I forgot to wear my big glasses, so all in all, I look older. But on brighter side, I did get the chance to wear my blazer for the first time. And again, I’m glad that it went well.
I know that I’ve wrote my “speech” on Instagram (if you follow me,you’ll know) but I’m just gonna write it here again.

I would like to take this chance to say thank you to my family, my best friends, my college friends, my lecturers and those people who have directly or indirectly supported, encouraged and guided me through those 3 years of hard work,blood and sweat..and occasionally tears..haha...Thank you to those people who have directly or indirectly lifted me up when I was feeling down and made me feel happy in the time when I was stress. I am forever grateful for all you for what you have done for me until I am being awarded for the Chief Executive Officer Award on last Wednesday. That is something that I can never repay.

Okay, I’m being emotional now. *wriggling my body*

In other news *reported style*, me family and I went out for dinner on Thursday, that was fun and super delicious. Oh,oh, and also A gave me a bouquet of lollipops! Thanks A! He knows I love candy. And my sisters gave me flowers with a small teddy bear...awwww...... J

So yeah, I think that’s all for today.

This week will be a bit different because I’ll be posting again on Sunday with a different topic because I should’ve blog about it before but I forgot (typical me), so I’ll post it on Sunday.

Okay, so this week I wanna know how was your graduation or convocation? Did it go well? Were there any awkward moments with your friends or your friend’s family? Were you happy with the way you look on that day?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this post if you or your friend experienced that same thing as I was and follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

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Saturday, October 29, 2016


Hey guys, so today I wanna talk about, well actually I have a few things that I wanna talk about but that's for some other time. Now I wanna talk about convocation which will be held on next Wednesday. A bit excited about that and also a bit nervous. The thing that scares me the most is to fall on stage or off stage, either way it's embarrassing. Every time I have to get on stage in front of a lot of people, I always worried about falling down. It's hurtful and embarrassing...and people are gonna remember it for years and maybe forever.

Okay, let's get back to the topic. Before convocation, yes, by the time this is posted on BATC, the rehearsal for the convocation will be on the next day. Again, O'm pretty excited and nervous about it but this time is not because I'm worry might fall but because I will be seeing my college friends that I haven't seen for a year and some are more than that. The thing is, I don't have any major accomplishment, okay I have a job now but a lot of my college friends have job too. So what do I have that they don't? A blog?...haha...Some of them might have it too, we'll never know...haha..But yeah, that is what I'm worried about at the moment. I talked about this with A and K. A said that I don't have to worry about that because now I have job with big salary (not really) and I have 1 manuscript that's in a queue. But the manuscript, I don't know, I still haven't got any news from them, and again about the job, my friends might have a job with a bigger salary than mine. So yeah, that's what I wanna talk about, what I feel before rehearsal and before the actual event.

So that's all for today, I hope you enjoy reading about me sharing what I feel for my convocation. Do you have and had the same feeling when you're going to your convocation or graduation? What are you or were you worry about for that day? Or what's the thing you worry about when going on a stage? How was your convocation or graduation turned out to be?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this post if you are or have a friend that will be attending a convocation or graduation. And follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

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Tuesday, October 25, 2016


Hey guys! As you all can see the title, I hate everyone...that’s what my best friend, A, said but not in judgemental way. Okay, yes, I probably sometimes kinda sorta hate people but let me tell you, I don’t hate people without a reason. A said I hate people especially on the first meet. That is because I’m protective of my friends, and, on my point of defence, I don’t hate them, it’s just that I’m not the kind of person who would be like “OMG, you are the nicest person I’ve ever meet, we should be bff,” after like 5 seconds of meeting them for the first time. I need to know more about the person before I can accept them into our group (me,A and S). Because what if that person is a psychopath? Or a drug dealer? Drug addict? Murderer? Child abuser? Con man? Alien pretending to be a human? Or a blood sucking  vampire? I would regret it my whole life if I accepted those people into our group. And A and S might say that I’m a bit picky, well maybe I am because come on, how can you be friends with people that you can’t be comfortable around, right? So, for me, if the person is going to be in our group, he or she somehow or sorta have the same thinking or characteristics as one of us. So yeah, maybe some of you agree with A, that I hate people but whatever, I’m sticking with what I believe. Anyway,just so you know, when I don’t like those new people, I don’t show it in front of them, I would just say it on their back or something, which is yes, it’s a bad thing to do but at least it’s better than showing it in front of them and making them feel bad or label you as an asshole or probably slap your face. So yes, I’m not a very friendly person as you all know, maybe because I don’t really mind being alone...I don’t know. To conclude this post, I just wanna say that I don’t hate people except those who annoy me or mean to me, but other than, I don’t.

So,the different pattern I mentioned on the post earlier today, is that from now on I will want to know your opinion about my post and the topic I write about. So today, I wanna know what do you think? Am I being unreasonable for being picky? Are you the kind of person who would accept people as your bff after the first meet? Or you will never admit them as your friend even after years of knowing each other?

Leave your opinion in the comments below. Share this post if you have a friend who has the same thinking as me and follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

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Hey guys! I’m back after like 8 months of not writing anything here. I do feel bad when I saw that people still viewing BATC but I didn’t update a shit. Though a few things did happened to me but it’s all in the past now and I’m not gonna write it all in here because it will be long as hell. I know I’ve said before that I might delete BATC in case my novel get publish or something. Well I guess you guys probably know that my novel is not yet publish, hence BATC still here. But, I’ve been thinking and got a few influents, which make me decided that I probably won’t delete BATC even when my novel get publish because it has become a part of me and my life. Yes, I’ve written a lot of personal things here but when I think about it again, why bother if people know a lot about me, they would know about me somehow at some point, right? It’s not like I’ve posted my nudes or something. Plus, I’ve obtain more than 15 000 page views, that’s a lot even though it did take 5 years to get it but still, it’s freaking awesome! Such a huge accomplishment in my life. So, I would like to announce that BATC will STAY FOREVER! Yeay!

Now, I would like to tell you guys why I didn’t post anything in the past months. First of all was because I was busy with writing my novel a few months earlier this year but now it’s finished and I’m actually writing a new short story. Second, I’m working at the same company I performed my internship. And I have to work from 9am to 6pm (sometimes more) on Monday to Friday. Third, was because I’m a slacker, I’m too lazy to write every day. There you go 3 reasons why I didn’t update. But I’m back now!

Which lead me to another thing I wanna share. Since I’m working 5 days a week and every morning I have to wake up at 5.30 am because I need to prepare for my side job which is making a sausage roll to be sell at my aunt’s stall and doing my writing on the weekends,  but I still wanna continue blogging, I have made a decision.  I’ve decided to post 1 post once a week, which probably be on the weekend but I’m still not sure whether it will be on Saturdays or Sundays. But, maybe if I have a lot to share, I might post twice a week...we’ll see. And my post might not be my every day activity or me summing up my whole week because let’s be honest, my life is boring. So, what I will update is more into what I feel or what I’ve been thinking about or my opinion on something or a major thing that happened within that week or maybe some random stuff. And there might be a few different patterns on my post, different from the usual one I did, including me being more expose about myself (not like being naked and stuff, you pervert!), meaning I might post my photos here, with my face on it J  but for those other people,I will keep them as alphabets. Even the title would be My Diary...or maybe it will but not for every post. You might also realize that I have deleted a few old posts which were not about me because I wanna make sure that BATC is about me and me only. Though that old posts did contribute a lot of page views but no,I need to focus on myself now. Though I might probably post my opinion about other people...haha...

Since today is my come back day, so I’ll be posting 2 posts. One is this one, and the other one will be above this one in a few minutes with the title ‘I Hate Everyone.....Do I?’. Hope you guys will keep on viewing my blog and leave your comments and follow BATC.

I would also like to take this chance to say I’m so sorry  for making some of you guys wonder what’s happening to me, why I didn’t update anything for the past 8 months and also I wanna say thank you to you guys who still view BATC these whole time and helped increasing my page views every day. I love you guys!

Oh,oh, I also wanna tell you guys that on 2nd November is my convocation!! Wish me luck!

Love Always,

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Tuesday, February 16, 2016


This would be the last post with the title In Between Job because I got a job at the same company I performed my internship and I start working tomorrow...wish me luck...Regarding my novel,I sent the first 2 chapters to a publishing company but apparently they are not interested to publish's kinda dissappointing but I'm not giving up,I'll send to another company later....but I do also feel sad because of something that I think not fair to share here...but anyway,I do feel sad but as always,I'll find a way to make me,getting a job would be great because it'll distract me from that feeling...



Sunday, January 31, 2016


At a certain situation,I realized,there's 2 group of people.People A,the spotlight is on them because of what they did or because they always somehow drag other people to help solve their problems.People B,the people who not in the spotlight and they often solve their problems on their own or only ask people to help them when the problem is too big or too difficult.However,at certain time whenever the People A make a mistake,other people will assume People B will do the same.I feel sorry for People B because other people don't know that People B often being silent in pain.And when other people make such assumption,it feel as if the People B,who is already holding a big rock above their head,being thrown pebbles towards them at the same time.And they have to bare all that on their own.I hope People B will be strong and take it as a test and that other people will always make such assumption because they don't know who you are and what you have faced.




1.       Do you go method when writing a novel?

Well, if you ask my sisters, they would definitely say I am but the truth is I’m not, I don’t say I go method when writing a novel, it’s just that I’m focusing on what I wanna write, so when I’m writing a serious scene, then probably I just don’t talk so much, especially when I’m in front of my laptop, typing that part.

2.       Where is Y? Why haven’t you mention anything about her anymore?

Y is around..haha...we texted each other a few times but just not too often. Maybe because we’re both caught up with work...but she’s still around.

3.       Do you have a new year‘s resolution?

At first I thought I don’t have any because since I went to college I don’t ready set any resolution, I just wanted to pass everything and graduate..that’s all..but now I do have, which is to have my new novel publish.

4.       How is the progress for your new novel?

I’m actually on Chapter 16 out of 30 chapters. So, it’s in very good progress actually.

5.       What’s next for you after you finish your novel?

What’s next? Next would be me continuing my studies or probably working first and then studies.

6.       Do you miss your college life?

I kinda do miss my college life but not particularly the assignments and presentations and exams but just the life of doing what I want and have friends...and being,no, I’m just kidding.

7.       Can you give us a teaser for your new novel?

All I could say is that it’s a supernatural thing...and also friendship...and the genre is a mixture of thriller, suspense and slightly comedic.

8.       What happened to your internet friend, M?

M? Yeah, honestly I don’t know what happened to her...she’s sorta disappeared. She unfriended me and then that was it...I tried to find her but nothing that I found. To be honest, I kinda miss her and our conversations.

9.       Are you and K together?

Together? What do you mean? If together you mean as a couple, then no, she’s not my girlfriend, we’re just close friend. But she’s a good friend. J

10.   Your blog is very inspirational and interesting but you rarely update. Please update more often.

Thank you so much, I’m glad that it inspires you. And I’ll try my best to update as much as I could.

11.   What is the last book you read? What is your favourite book?

The last book I read is How To Fall in Love by Cecelia Ahern, it’s a great book.  My favourite book would be Eragon by Christopher Paolini.

12.   Who inspire you to write this new novel?

Well, at first I just wanted to write a new novel but who inspired me to write this particular novel is someone that I can’t mention the name but yes, someone did inspired me to write this novel. J

Thank you so much guys for the questions and sorry for not making a video, instead I just write down the answers.

Now here’s some of the announcement that I wanted to share with you all:

1.       I will change the name of My Diary, since I’m no longer a college student for now, therefore I think it’s better for me to change the name....but I haven’t decided what’s the title going to be.

Saturday, January 2, 2016

GOODBYE 2015, HELLO 2016

2015 had been a great year for me because I've done a few things that I never thought I could do and I've accomplished some good things. Thanks to everyone for the support. And thanks to my best friends for been  there for me all the time. Thanks to those people and the new-old-person who have helped me be happy and inspired me to do what I love. I really appreciate all of you for all of it. Though there were some hard times but that are all the lesson that I learnt. I also feel like I'm getting much more mature through this year, I owe that to my best friends and a certain people. I don't think 2015 is a bad year for me.
For 2016, I hope it will be a much better year and hope that I could experience more new stuff and have more achievement and success. Hope I won't loose the people that makes me happy but meet more of those incredible people through out the year.