LET'S TALK ABOUT FEELINGS

Hey guys! It me! <<< typo on purpose

So this week I wanna share about feelings. As you can see there’s an ‘s’ at the end of the word ‘feeling’. Therefore, I’m not gonna write about just 1 feeling because then it’ll be boring and/or I might end up crying and cause the tears to fall on my laptop and into the circuit and ruin everything.

So yeah, I’m just gonna share about feelings in general.

And also because I can’t just write about feelings specifically related to romantic relationship because some people thinks that I won’t understand how it feels like to be in a relationship because I’ve never been in a relationship. Which is completely bulls***. I mean, relationship is based on love and commitment, and that is actually what most people have and deal with, even though they’re not in a relationship. To be honest, #tbh, some people who is not in a relationship can give advises to the people who is in a relationship, because it’s possible that people who is not in a relationship know or understand more or same as those people who’s in a relationship.

Okay, enough with that! Let’s go back to the topic.

Feelings...

Nothing more than feelings...

*I’m singing to Barry Manilow’s song ‘Feeling’* (For those who don’t know)

Feelings, there’s a lot of types of feelings. There’s anger, sad, happy, excited, nervous, fear, daunting (is it a feeling) and etc. Some people believe that we actually feel 1 feeling at a time, you either feel sad or angry, you can never feel both, but I believe we can feel more than 1 feelings at a time, you can feel sad and angry. For example, your annoying little cousin has accidentally ripped out your High School Musical 3: Senior Year novel that you have been keeping in good condition for years. So you are angry at that little monster but at the same time you’re sad because you know that you can never find that novel in bookstore again. And later on, you beat that little brat.

So yeah, it’s possible to feel 2 or 3 feelings at a time. You can even feel happy and angry at the same time but then people will start calling you schizophrenic or crazy.

Another thing that I believe in when talking about feelings and I know I’ve mentioned about this before and I’m pretty sure a lot of you think the same way, is that the more you keep whatever you feel to yourself, the stronger it become. I believe this because I’ve experienced it. Multiple of times.

So, if it’s a good feelings, than it’s okay if you wanna just keep it to yourself because no one is interested to hear about them or you’re worried that people might think you’re crazy or ridiculous, but if it’s not a good one, then try to find a way to let it out and I don’t mean you beat the shit out of someone, but just let it out in a healthy way. If you have someone you can talk to, then talk to them but if you don’t, find another alternative, write it on your Facebook or tweet them or write a blog or call a radio station when they ask you to call to talk about something, any healthy way, so that the feelings won’t get worst.

So that’s pretty much what I wanna share with you guys this week. Hope you enjoy it.

This week I actually wanna ask you guys if you have any suggestion on what I should talk about next week because I don’t have any idea right now, honestly.

So let me know what topic you want me to share next week on the comment section below. 

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Love always,

Zac

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READ A BOOK!

Hey guys! It’s me! Remember me? Miss me?

So this week, as you all can read from the title, I’m gonna talk about books....not boobs, okay? Urghh...

As some of you might already know that I really enjoy reading books, but obviously not all kind of books because I hate text books and I’m not really into those biography thing. Other than that, I’m willing to read.

I know I have written about this but I’m just gonna “replay” for those who don’t know. I only started to be interested in reading novels when I was working at the optometrist a few years ago, I think it was like 6 years ago? So when I was a kid, in school, reading novel was not my thing, my sisters, yes but not me. I was more into comics and short, short stories.

Anyway, before I continue with this topic, I should let you know that I’m posting this not because I want to encourage you to read a book, even though reading books can really help you in a lot of ways, like making your vocabulary much better, fill in your spare time, widen your imagination and a few other things.

The reason I’m posting this is because I wanna share my opinion regarding books and reading and also about my recent participation involving books.

Let me be honest, I didn’t read any books for like months now but not until recently. I am currently reading Ellen Degeneres ‘ book titled ‘Seriously....I’m kidding’. And it’s awesome. I recommend you to read it.

Someone once asked me why I don’t just download e-book or audio book instead of buying physical books. I have never try audio book but I’m planning to. However, I have tried e-book before, but I just don’t really like it. I mean, yes, it’s convenient and you don’t have to carry 500 pages book everywhere and it’s cool that you can turn the pages with your finger tips on the screen of your phone but  one, it will drain your battery. Two, I don’t know, it just doesn’t feel right for me. So I prefer physical book.

Okay, my recent participation in an activity involving books is about sharing your favourite books or any books in general to a stranger.  Let me explain how this activity goes. It takes place in Facebook, so you don’t have to go to places and gather around exchanging books, it’s all online....except when you need to send the book, you need to courier it or post it.

This is how it goes, trust me, its fun:

Person A will post a status update about this activity and ask whoever interested to join to leave a comment. You are interested and you commented. Person A will reply by giving you a name and an address for you to send your favourite book or any book (The name and address is real, not fake). And person A will also ask you to post the same status as Person A and giving you his/her name and address. The reason why Person A gave you his/her name is for you to send it to the person who will comment on your status update. And you will also do the same thing Person A did to you. So chain will continue on.

Pretty simple, right?

So, I’ll be sending my favourite book to a stranger tomorrow. I hope he will like it the way I do.

So that’s all for this week.

Before I’ll end this post, I just want to write, READ A BOOK!. J

This week I wanna know what is your favourite book? How many times have you read them? Do you prefer physical books or e-book or audio book?

Leave your opinion on the comment section below. Share this post if you like reading or you wanna ask your friends to start reading. And follow BATC for more post.

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YOU'RE GAY?

Hey guys! What’s up?

Before I begin this week topic, I should let you that we didn’t go to Port Dickson last weekend because my uncle passed away on the exact same day we were suppose to go. Luckily we haven’t started driving when we got the news. I hope he’s in a better place.

Alright, stop with the sadness.

So this week I’m gonna talk about something that I had never really talks about with everyone. And since this topic has been one of the main subjects of conversation for almost the whole world, so I thought, why not share my opinion about it.

Hint : It’s not about Donald Trump.

Well, not actually my opinion on that exact topic but it’s about something that is related to that matter.

Okay, enough hinting!

So, a few days ago...well, actually a few months ago, someone said something more or less like this, “If you’re being friends with a gay guy, it’s possible that you are too.”

I totally disagree with what he said. However, at that moment I didn’t say anything, I just made like awkward expression and feel annoyed, because I wasn’t finished processing those sentences in my head. Not only after a few days that I finally know what I should’ve respond (typical me).

Honestly I was quite surprised when I heard that. Not just because of what he said but because it came out from a person who’s not straight. I’m not judging or saying that it’s okay if it comes out from a straight person and not if it’s from the LGBT community, but I just thought that they would be more understanding and more supportive that a straight person is accepting and being friends with them. Isn’t that what the LGBT community want? People accepting who they are? I mean, isn’t that what everyone wants?

So yeah, it happened.

So what I should’ve respond is by saying, “Go f*** yourself!”

No, I’m just kidding.

What I should’ve said is that not every friendship will turn out with them being the same person. I mean, if their friends are smoking weed, doesn’t mean they smoke weed too. And if their friends have long hair, doesn’t mean they will have long hair too.

Yes, probably most of the time it happen with all the pier pressure and stuff but not all the time. Not all people will follow what their friends do. Not all people feel the need to be the same as their friends. They might have the same thinking or opinion but that doesn’t mean they have the same attitude or in this case, the same sexual interest.

There are a lot of reasons why someone being friends with the LGBT community, maybe because the LGBT community are nice to that person, or maybe they have been friends since they were kids, or maybe they’re either bloggers or something. So it doesn’t always mean they are in the LGBT community just because their friends are.

I know that probably a lot of people might disagree with me and its okay because you have the right to have your own opinion and I respect that because the reason I’m sharing this is not because I wanna change your perspective, I just want to let you know not everything is black and white. A person being friends with a teacher doesn’t mean he/she is a teacher too. A guy being friends with a gay guy doesn’t mean he’s gay too.

So, to end this week’s topic I just wanted to say to that guy and to everyone whether you’re straight or in the LGBT community, to stop judging people through their friends. Most of the time you might be right but there’s possibility that you might be wrong.

So this week I wanna know what is your opinion about this? Have you faced this kind of situation? If you have, how did you handle it?

Leave your opinion on the comment section below. Share this post if you want to. And follow BATC for more posts.

Love Always,

Zac

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5 THINGS TO PREPARE FOR A VACATION

Hey guys! Happy holidays! So, since it’s the holiday and I’m pretty sure a lot of people are going for a vacation, like me.

Ching! J

Yes, by the time I’m posting this, I’ll be going to Port Dickson on the next day.

So excited!

*Jumping around hysterically*

So, following the mood this week and since I’ve went on vacation for quite a few times, I’m gonna share with you guys 5 things to prepare when you are going on a vacation. This applies to either local or abroad.

I’m sure there’s more but for now let’s just share 5 things.

Tips #1 : Accommodation.

Make sure you have a place to stay at wherever you plan to go because if not, then you’ll be a homeless person on a stranger’s place. Check if you have a relative who lives nearby and if you do have and they are willing to let you stay, perfect!

If you don’t have any or they don’t allow you to stay then you can just book your place online. Nowadays we have a lot of websites that can help you find a place according to your preferences. We have Trivago, Agoda, Booking.com, etc.

Now we’re moving on to....

Tips #2 : Transportation.

Make sure you know which transportation you will use to get there because you definitely not gonna walk to go to that place....I mean, you can but then you might die half way there.

So once you have decided which transportation, make sure it is in good condition or if you travel by public transport or airplane, make sure you remember the time of departure, write it inside you handphone’s memo pad or the refrigerator or on the ceiling of your bedroom or at the mirror in your bathroom or all of the above.

Tips #3 : Map/Know the location.

If you are going to a foreign place or a place you have never been before, make sure you have a map either in your phone or the old fashion map or even the globe, any way possible.

I know it’s much more fun and adventurous if you just randomly go and find a place but you might waste a lot of time, you might end up in a scary place and again, you might die.

So it’s best to be safe and study the place you’re about to go on vacation.

Tips #4 : Money.

Make sure you have enough money for accommodation, transportation and for emergency, in case something happen. I’m not saying that it will happen, which is good God, I hope not but you can never be sure. Shit things happen. Hope for the best but expecting the worst.

Honestly, if I don’t have enough money to cover all that stuff, I would just cancel the trip because I would freak out if something happen and I don’t have the money.

Tips #5 : Handphone & Charger.

Its 2017, I’m sure almost all of us have handphone. So, it’s important that you bring it with you when going on a vacation. Like I said earlier, shit things happen. So if you have a phone, you can contact appropriate person to help you out or something.

But, the phone will be useless without sufficient battery. Therefore, you should also bring your charger or power bank or any sort of devices that will increase your phone’s battery.

Okay, that’s all I got for you this week. I’m sure there’s a lot more things to prepare when going on a vacation but this are the most basic things you should know.

So this week  I wanna know, what are your tips when going for a vacation? Where are you going to this holiday? What are the most memorable moments of your previous vacation?

Leave your opinion in the comment section below. Share this post if you’re going on a vacation or maybe your friend or family. And follow BATC for more posts.

Have a great holiday everyone!

Love Always,

Zac

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TURNING IT UP AROUND

Hey guys! So today I’m not going to share any tips but instead I’m gonna share with you guys about my life (like you don’t know enough..haha) and one of my main goal for this year.

As far as I know and I’m sure all of you guys know it too, that my life is boring or kinda boring. Nothing huge or outstanding happen in my life. I mean good things.

Mostly my everyday life is pretty average, especially since I started working last year. All I do is wake up in the morning, go to work, come home for lunch, go back to work and then come home at 6pm, sometimes later than that.

And on my weekend, I update my blog, doing some writing, watch tv and online.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad that I have a job. It’s been very beneficial for me and my family. And I’m also not saying that my job now is the reason why I have a boring life.

It’s just that with work, my activity is limited. I work from 9am to 6pm, that’s almost the entire day. But then of course, the other reason for my boring life is because I’m not adventurous enough and I’m a lazy person.

Typical me.

I’m not trying to wish my life would be epic everyday because I know that one day I will feel too tired to keep up. I just want to achieve or obtain something that is big or something that I can really be proud of.

But just by saying I want it, won’t make it come true.

So that why this year I’m planning to turn it up around and create 1 goal.

So basically what I have planned recently is that I will do a lot more stuff and try to grab as much opportunity as I can.

Honestly, even though last year is a good year for me, but I feel like I wasn’t trying hard enough to obtain a big accomplishment.

That’s why this year I’m sending my second full manuscript to as many book publisher as I can and I am still trying to find other book publisher to widen the chance for my manuscript to be publish.

Besides that, I’m also starting to do a part time job, which some of you might know, it’s a telco business

Visit my Facebook (Zac Shurtugal Nazrin) to know more.

*Promo*

And my sister also in the middle of doing her own clothing business and I will be a part of that too.

So, this year might be a busy year for me but I really hope all turns out great.

Wish me luck!

Okay, that’s all for this week. I’m so sorry if this post bored you but I just had to share it with you guys.

You guys are my personal psychiatrist.

Bye!

So this week I wanna what’s your plan for this year? How are you going to make this year better than last year?

Leave your opinion on the comment section below. Share this post if you want to. And follow BATC for more posts.

Love always,

Zac

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